depression hurts quotes
Is this a good sign or a bad one?
I have been pretty much obsessing over a girl for the past year I think. It has been the cause of my depression and misery for sometime now. I have asked numerous questions about suicide, depression, unrequited love, etc. I know for a fact that she would never tell me she doesn’t like me because she knows that would ruin me. The quote “Just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to, doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have” describes this problem well.This girl is EXTREMELY careful of what she says/does to me because she would never want to hurt me. I recently messaged her on Facebook asking her why she doesn’t like me just because I was curious and it is well known fact (long story). She responded anonymously (I figured out it was her, long story) saying “”your ok i guess…but you need to open up a little more to people tho … because it’s scary sometimes”. Is this a good thing, or a bad thing?
My friend, having self teem will not protect you from feeling the pain of life, but it will enable you to cope with the pain, don’t get me wrong, you will still feel sad and fearful and angry and sometimes afraid. But having self esteem means that you will have the strength to trust yourself and to know that you can deal with whatever comes along to the best of your abilities. T.J, loving and caring for your self means that whatever happens, you will know that you will be there for your self.
What she means with that is… You need to be assertive and stand up for your self. Be good to your self and pamper your self sometimes. If you don’t assert your self you will become a lot of work for others because no one, including the people pleaser, knows what they really want , need or feel. People around you will disappear, what it means will not want to be with you. You need to be prepared for the future, don’t mistake that everyone’s act or think same as you, everyone is unique and different, every after is different so always have that in mind. I know this situation hurts loads, it’s kind of scary looking ahead and not knowing what to do next, but no matter what life holds for you; you will always have your family and people that loves you. No one ever really knows what life has in store, what roads they will travel, or how things will turn out. Look in all directions to seek out the answers you long to know, and discover the secrets that keep questioning your heart. Be willing to make changes and be ready to face the challenges. Accept the opportunities that present themselves, and endure and cope with the difficulties that can arise from time to time. Search for your true meaning in life by devoting your self to your ideals, and enjoy your wonderful adventure through time by making every day SPECIAL. Just remember that there’s no other way to grow. You have to experience the good with the bad for your self. As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn’t supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it’s harder every time. You’ll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You’ll fight with your best friend. You’ll blame a new love for things an old one did. You’ll cry because time is passing too fast, and you’ll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you’ve never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you’ll never get back and remember… There is no race to win and nothing to be proven. Never doubt your worth.
Wish you enough
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